Integrative Divorce Mediation
in Lake Oswego & Portland, Oregon

A calmer way forward is possible. Divorce is one of life’s most challenging transitions, but it doesn’t have to be adversarial, overwhelming, or financially draining.

My integrative approach brings together emotional steadiness, legal clarity, and thoughtful communication.

This helps couples slow down, reduce reactivity, and make grounded decisions that reflect their long-term values.

An amicable divorce is the outcome most families hope for — a process grounded in respect, transparency, and clarity. My work is centered around helping couples reach this kind of resolution without unnecessary conflict or adversarial steps.

For most families, the clearest path to an amicable divorce is mediation, supported by financial analysis and resilience tools to stay on track even when emotions are high.

An integrative approach brings together the essential elements families need during major transitions:

• Legal clarity

Grounded in more than two decades of work as a Collaborative Attorney.

• Neutral support and mediation

Facilitating balanced, respectful discussions that help you reach durable agreements.

• Financial analysis (CDFA®)

Understanding budgets, assets, long-term planning, and what each option really means for your future.

• Resilience and emotional steadiness

Tools from HeartMath, Compassion-Based Resilience, and conflict coaching to help you stay grounded and make thoughtful decisions.

This combination helps families reduce conflict, stay in control of their decisions, and avoid the adversarial systems that often creates more harm than help.

My integrative approach also supports couples who are preparing for marriage or working to strengthen their relationship, with services offered in the same spirit of clarity, steadiness, and respect.

Each family brings its own history, concerns, and hopes for the future. The services below offer different paths toward resolution, all grounded in the same integrative philosophy: helping you make thoughtful decisions with less reactivity and greater clarity. You’re welcome to begin with the approach that feels most supportive, and I can help you decide if you’re unsure.

Mediation

My primary service. Collaborative-informed mediation tailored to the level of conflict and communication needs in your family. Appropriate for divorce, parenting issues, post-divorce updates, and extended family matters.

Collaborative Law

Still an important option for some families. My mediations are rooted in Collaborative principles — respect, transparency, and the right level of professional support — but with attorneys brought in as needed rather than running the entire process.

Financial Analysis (CDFA®)

Clear guidance on assets, budgets, long-term plans, and the financial implications of your choices.

Resilience & Coaching

Emotional tools and strategies that help you navigate stress, communicate effectively, and make grounded decisions.

Every family has different needs. Some require more structure; some need more emotional support; some need clear financial guidance; and some simply need a neutral professional to help them talk through the decisions.

I can help you understand which process — or combination of supports — fits your situation best.

For 17 years here in Oregon, I’ve helped families navigate divorce and other major transitions with integrity, care, and a focus on long-term well-being. I am one of the founders of the Oregon Association of Collaborative Professionals, and my mediation work is deeply informed by the Collaborative model — adapted to what most families truly need.

Learn more about my background, training, and approach.
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Choosing a process is one of the most important decisions you’ll make.

I offer a free consultation of up to one hour to help you understand your options, what each path involves, and what might serve your family best.

There is no obligation to move forward, and no preparation required.

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• Collaborative Attorney
• Divorce Mediator
• Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)
• Resilience Coach
• Certified HeartMath® Trainer and Coach

• Compassion Based Resilience Training from Nalanda Institute of Contemplative Science, NYC

• Certified in Compassion-Based Resilience Training (pending — can add when completed)
• A Founder, Oregon Association of Collaborative Professionals
• Member, Oregon State Bar
• Member, local, national and international Collaborative Practice organizations

If you are facing a divorce, parenting issue, or major family transition, a peaceful way forward is possible. I’m here to help you choose the right level of support and navigate the process with steadiness and care. Contact Me to Schedule Your Free 1-Hour Consultation

You don’t need to navigate this alone. A calmer, more thoughtful path is possible.

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Additional services within my integrative practice include Marital Mediation and Premarital Agreements, available for couples who are not divorcing but want structured support.